Monthly Archives: August 2011

Death, Dying…and those other things we don’t like to talk about.

One thing school doesn’t necessarily prepare you for? Dealing with patients who are rapidly declining. It can be extrememly heart wrentching and emotional for everyone around them- including you, the therapist.  Today was one of those days.  Not only did a patient pass away moments after I was in the room with them, but a patient I felt a huge connection with last week has since declined to a nearly delusional and comatose state.  I left my morning sessions feeling emotional and off balanced.

How do we deal with moments like these… especially students and interns who are still fresh in the field?  Even for a seasoned professional, days like this can have a real impact.  At times it can be a real taboo topic to admit you have a connection with a patient, that you felt something, and that you’re having a hard time separating that from your personal life.  It has to leak into it somehow, right?… we’re only human afterall.

So here is my conclusion:

  • Life happens.. it’s how you handle it that’s important.
  • It’s ok to ask for help and admit you need someone to talk to.
  • Human connection is inevitable- but that’s what is also so incredible about our job as a music therapist
  • Separating home from work is critical- but it’s also ok to let those experiences teach you a lot about life and yourself
  • It’s all part of growing as a person and a professional
Effectice Coping Strategies:
  1. Journal, write, play music, do a mandala- express what you’re feeling and process it
  2. Talk to someone you trust so you can process what you’re feeling
  3. Know your limits
Rough day- but many more wonderful one’s to look forward to.

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Implementing the Future into Your Interventions

As part of my internship experience, we take on different placements for different amounts of time.  Currently, one of my placements is an day center working with adults with varying disabilities and intellectual levels.  From the start I knew I wanted to experiement with something I am very passionate about- technology.  My supervisor, Teri Weiner MT-BC has been a cheering support as a formulate new ideas and interventions.

So far, so good. I’ve had raving success with my clients and they’ve taken to the different interventions and activities well… you’ll love the responses you get from clients faces when they see they can control the “Tom Cat.”

A cat came fiddling out of a barn

With a pair of bagpipes under her arm

She could sing nothing but fiddle dee dee

and the mouse has married the bumble bee

Fiddle dee dee, lalalala etc.

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